Hati sakit pun turutkan la jgk

Assalammualaikum,

Gambar ni diambil masa pergi KL Festival last Saturday..tak de plan pun..soraya yang ajak..pergi lps kelas muzik dia..agaknya dia boring nak balik rmh, dia ajak aku dan papa dia pergi KL Festival.. so alang -alang dah ke sana terus la redeem voucher Parkson yg dapat masa dinner ofs hari tu...gambar dinner ofis pun tak letak lgi..

Masa dlm Parkson tu pun sempat gak berdrama..ntah la..susah betul aku nak lupakan..benda baru jadi tak sampai seminggu..dia expect aku buat mcm biasa, memang tak la kan..yg jadi mangsa adalah aku..sian kan soraya je kalau tidak memang aku balik rmh naik teksi je..

Then pergi minum-minum kat Cinnamon Cafe..ok jgk lepak kat sini..open space..sebelah Cinnamon Cafe ialah Sakura Kristal..byk jgk kedai mkn yg menarik kat sini..at least ada la tempat nak buang masa..(amalan kurang sihat) 

Singgah jap beli yogurt kat Gelato Fruity..

Gelato Fruity -  passion lime..diorang ckp sgt masam..aku ok je..

Kat Nichii ada sale..

 

Soraya's chicken chop

Lps tu kelam kabtut balik nak tengok walimatul urus Lisa n Yusry..sweet je aku tengok..lps tu seperti biasa aku la yg syok sendiri, terbayang-bayang...dah selamat pun diorang menikah..

Hari ni, kawan baik aku dah berlepas ke Tanah Suci Mekah untuk mengerjakan umrah..semuga lancar segala urusannya disana dan mendapat umrah makbullah...

p/s - being hurt by someone you love is the worst feeling ever..

Rebuild Trust

When infidelity, lies or broken promises invade a marriage, the trust between husband and wife is severely damaged. However, this doesn't mean that the marital relationship can't be saved. When your spouse has done something to break the trust between two, rebuilding trust in your marriage can be difficult. Here are suggestions on how to on rebuild trust.

Difficulty: Hard

Time Required: Varies

Here's How:

1. Make a decision to love by trying to let go of the past. Stop obsessing about the situation which broke the trust between you and your spouse.
2. Decide to forgive or to be forgiven.
3. If you are the one in your marriage who lied, cheated, etc. show that the errant behavior is gone by changing your behaviors. That means no more secrets, lies, infidelity, etc.
4. Together, set specific goals for getting your marriage back on track.
5. Both of you must renew your commitment to your marriage and one another.
6. The wounded spouse must share the pain. The other spouse must acknowledge the hurt caused by the devastating experience of being lied to or cheated on.
7. Listen completely to one another and with your heart, not just your head.
8. Be honest.
9. Avoid using words that can trigger conflict. Use non-blaming 'I' statements and don't say always, must, never, or should.
10. Take responsibility for your own actions and decisions.
11. Be open to seeking counseling to have a better understanding into what caused the trust to be broken.
12. Remind one another that you each deserve open and honest answers to your questions about the affair or betrayal.

Tips:

1. Recognize that rebuilding trust takes time. It won't happen over night.
2. It's okay to remember the incidents and the betrayal. You may not forget what happened, but the pain will eventually go away.
3. Be aware of your feelings and share your feelings with one another.

Allah swt menduga kita dengan pelbagai cara...sebagai hambanya kita harus meminta doa dan petunjuk kepada Nya..kekecewaan itu memang ada..

Article tu di cedok dari cik gugel..

Favourite song.

ON MY OWN

I'm wiser now
I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
So long ago
I'm stronger now
I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
And I should know
I put myself aside to do it your way
But now I need to do it all alone

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'll keep it real you know
Time for me to do it on my own
Yeah yeah, mmm, yeah yeah

It's over now
I can't go back to living through your eyes
Too many lies
And if you don't know by now
I can't go back to being someone else
Not anymore
I never had a chance to do things my way
So now it's time for me to take control

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
Time for me to do it

Oh I start again go back to one
I'm running things my way
Can't stop me now, I've just begun
Don't even think about it
There ain't no way about it
I'm taking names, the ones of mine
Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone

I am not afraid to try it on my own
And I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
It's time for me to do it

 See I'm not afraid

Zara 1st birthday party

Assalammualaikum,

Dah lama baru nak letak gambar.. jemput neighbour sebelah, diorang datang anak beranak, my friend Umi came with her family and soraya's friend with her mother which is my friend too..alhamdulillah majlis berjalan lancar..makanan semua habis..ok, here some photos taken..tak sempat nak bergambar dgn birthday girl..bz layan guest..

Birthday girl with her mother..

Insyaallah, next month buat birthday Caca, pun setahun jgk..

p/s - sedih jgk dengar Whitney Houstan dah meninggal...aku suka semua lagu dia..yg paling berkesan adalah On my Own..

Rainbow buttercake - the story behind it

 

My wish to make Rainbow Buttercake has been accomplished....with totally depend on beginners luck and insufficient tools. I believed it was superbly done.  At first, maybe the mixture was wrong or because I had used a 6 inches baking tray (as recommended by the recipe), the first layer turned out to be so thin. I felt so hopeless and thought of giving a day off but with the support of my daughter and her willingness to give her hand, I tried with another mixture and it turned out so well. The cake had taken 6 hours of my sleeping time (from 10 p.m until 4 a.m) but it was worth doing.

The cake was mend for Zara's birthday cake....Huh....what a release...

....and....on the Zara's big day...it end up with a bag of compliments for her auntie....me...hehehe 

For information, the recipe is from Zarin Bahrin's blog

12 RabiulAwal..

Junjungan Mulia

Tercipta satu lembaran sejarah
Di tanah suci Kota Mekah
Hari yang mulia penuh syahadah
Bermulalah sebuah kisah

Malam isnin subuh yang indah
Dua belas rabiul'awal yang cerah
Dua puluh april tahun gajah
Lahirlah zuriat dan syahadah

Abdullah nama bapanya
Siti Aminah ibunya
Riang gembira menyambutnya
Lahirnya putra yang utama

Muhammad nama diberi
Gelaran yang terpuji
Nikmat Illahi sama disyukuri
Terima putra yang berbakti

Keadaan yatim anak mulia
Lahirnya bawa cahaya
Alam derita jadi gembira
Terima junjungan mulia

Ingat lagi nyanyi lagu ni masa zaman sekolah rendah..time tu dalam darjah 4 atau 5, sekolah ugama..pagi pergi sekolah petang pergi sekolah agama..kalau ada sambutan maulidur rasul lagu ni wajib dinyanyikan..aku dulu merupakan wakil nasyid sekolah...bukan la penyanyi utama..

Memandangkan hari ini merupakan hari ulangtahun Keputeraan Nabi Muhammad saw sengaja aku meletak lirik di atas sambil kita mengenang sedikit sebanyak sejarah Nabi Muhammad saw..

Marilah kita berselawat dan salam junjungan besar Nabi Muhammad saw, sama-sama menghayati pengorbanan agong baginda menyampaikan syiar islam yang suci kepada umat islam yang penuh lengkap segenap zaman..

Turning 46

Happy Birthday to my beloved husband..semoga bahagia, sukses dunia akhirat, dipermudahkan segala urusannya, barakah sisa umurnya, amin...lots of love from your wife..


p/s - nanti kita pergi dinner kat Sierra Cafe ye...Bandong here I come..